Baby Project, Newborn Baby

Today is the third day of carrying my baby around. Today the father took the baby for the first four periods and i carried the baby for the last four periods. The baby is getting even harder to carry and it gets in the way more and more everyday. When I carry the baby I can really feel how much it weighs and it sometimes even hurts my arm if I have to carry the baby for long periods of time. I don't what I would do if I was a single parent and had to carry my baby around all day...thank goodness for my partner.

Baby Project, Newborn Baby

Today is the second say carrying my baby. Today my partner took care of the baby for the first 4 periods and then I took care of him for the last 4 periods. Today was even harder than yesterday because I had more books to carry and it was really hard to carry my books and my baby at the same time because my baby is so large and heavy. But I am kinda getting used to holding my baby and carrying him around with me.

Baby Project, Newborn Baby

Today was the first day I had to carry my baby around school and lets just say its something i definatley do not want to do everyday. Having to carry my baby makes it almost immpossible to do anything else. It takes longer to get my books out of my locker and my partner did take the baby for 3 periods so that was a lot of help. But the baby is just so heavy it is just a hassle and i now understand the huge responsibility of having a baby is and with this baby I can definitely not multitask.

Baby Project,Life Card

The life card i recieved is that my baby is not growing properly. Some reasons why my baby could not be growing properly would be if i was drinking when i was pregnant, smoking, taking drugs. Also if i a not  eating a sensible diet, my baby could not be getting the proper nutrients it needs. Also the baby could not be growing properly if i am a very small sized women and my husband is very large, my baby could be too big for my uterus when it gets big enough. Since i had a miscarriage and am adopting, all these factors can be happened to the women who is going to let us adopt her baby.

16 weeks-your baby's eyes have begun to face forward and slowly move. The ears are close to reaching their final position. More-developed facial muscles may lead to various expressions, such as squinting and frowning. Your baby also can now make sucking motions with his or her mouth. Although still too slight to be felt, your baby's movements are becoming coordinated and can be seen during ultrasound exams. By now your baby may be more than 4 1/2 inches long.

17 weeks-fat stores begin to develop under your baby's skin. The fat will provide energy and help keep your baby warm after birth.

18 weeks-your baby's ears begin to stand out on the sides of his or her head. As the nerve endings from your baby's brain "hook up" to the ears, your baby may hear your heart beating, your stomach rumbling or blood moving through the umbilical cord. He or she may even be startled by loud noises. By now your baby may be 5 1/2 inches long.

19 weeks-your baby's hearing continues to improve. He or she may pick up your voice in conversations — although it's probably hard to hear clearly through the amniotic fluid and protective paste covering your baby's ears. For girls, the uterus and vagina may be forming this week.

20 weeks-your baby's delicate skin is protected with a greasy, cheese-like coating called vernix caseosa. You may be able to feel your baby's first movements, also known as quickening. By now your baby may be about 6 1/3 inches long.

21 weeks-your baby is about to gain more weight. By this week your baby is becoming more active and can swallow.

22 weeks-your baby is completely covered with a fine, down-like hair called lanugo. The lanugo helps hold the vernix caseosa on the skin. Your baby's eyebrows may be visible. By now your baby may be 7 1/2 inches long.

23 weeks-your baby's skin is wrinkled, more translucent than before and pink to red in color.
This week your baby begins to have rapid eye movements. Your baby's tongue will soon develop taste buds. Fingerprints and footprints are forming. For boys, the testes are beginning to descend from the abdomen. For girls, the uterus and ovaries are in place — complete with a lifetime supply of eggs.

24 weeks-your baby is regularly sleeping and waking. Real hair is beginning to grow on his or her head. By now your baby may be slightly longer than 8 inches long. With intense medical care, babies born this week could possible be able to survive.

Baby Project, Life Card

My new life card says that me and my partner will be moving to a big city. We chose to adopt so i believe moving to the city will help mine and my partners chances of adopting because there are a lot more adoption agencies in the city than the country. If i had not miscarriaged, my baby in my womb would be about 4 and a half inches in length and would weight about 3 and a half ounces. Also the babys legs are much more developed, its head is more erect than it has been, and its eyes have moved closer to the front of its head. Its ears are close to their final position, too. The patterning of its scalp has begun, though its locks aren't recognizable yet. It's even started growing toenails.

8 weeks-your baby's arms and legs are growing longer, and fingers have begun to form. The shell-shaped parts of your baby's ears also are forming, and your baby's eyes and nipples are visible. The upper lip and nose have formed. The trunk of your baby's body is beginning to straighten.Your baby may begin to move this week, but you won't be able to feel it yet. By the end of this week, your baby may be about 1/2 inch long.

9 weeks-your baby's arms grow, develop bones and bend at the elbows. Toes begin to form, and your baby's eyelids and ears continue developing. By the end of this week, your baby may be close to 3/4 inch long.

10 weeks-your baby's head has become more round. The neck begins to develop, and your baby's eyelids begin to close to protect his or her developing eyes.Although the genitals are developing, it's still too soon to identify your baby's sex.

11 weeks-your baby's head still makes up about half of its length. But your baby's body is about to catch up, growing rapidly in the coming weeks. Your baby is now officially described as a fetus. This week your baby's eyes are widely separated, the eyelids fused and the ears low set. Red blood cells are beginning to form in your baby's liver. By the end of this week, your baby's external genitalia will start developing into a penis or clitoris and labia majora. By now your baby may measure about 2 inches long.

12 weeks-Your baby's face now has a human profile. By now your baby may be nearly 2 1/2 inches long.

13 weeks-Your baby's eyes are starting to move closer together by pregnancy 13 weeks. Up until this point in time, they rested closely along the sides of the head. Your baby's intestines are also moving further into the body, and your baby's tiny pancreas is starting to produce insulin.

14 weeks-your baby's body is growing quite rapidly. His length is catching up with his slightly larger head. The ears have started their move to the sides of the head, and the eyes continue to get closer and closer together. During pregnancy week 14, your baby's neck will elongate, and the chin will start to rise up off the chest. Your baby's reflexes will also continue to develop this week. By now, your baby should be receiving his or her nutrition directly from the placenta. Remember that everything you put into your body can cross the placental wall and impact your baby.

15 weeks-Your baby's legs are growing longer than his arms now and all his joints and limbs can move. His genitals may be developed enough to show on an ultrasound scan.

16 weeks-Your baby is about the size of a pear this week. Some of the more advanced body systems are working now, including his circulation and urinary tract. Your baby may be playing with the umbilical cord too.

Baby Project, Day 3

My life card said that i might be miscarrying.  Some of the reasons i could be miscarrying is because of a problem in the way my genetic material combined when my egg and my partner's sperm joined during fertilization. Also another reason could be imbalances in my pregnancy hormones, problems with my immune system, and some infections such as listeriosis and malaria that are thought to make miscarriages more likely. A few more reasons i could possibly be miscarrying is that when you get older, your chance of having a miscarriage increases because egg qualtiy decreases as you get older. Also if you drink alcohol while your pregnant your chances of miscarrying increases too. My feelings about this have been all over the place, i have felt so many different things, i feel sad, guilty, angry, and i don't understand how to handle this awful situation. I just don't understand what happened and i how to get through this but hopefully with the help of my spouse, family, and friends i can. Some concerns and fears i have is if i have a miscarriage, is it likely that i will have more? or will i not be able to carry a child if i get pregnant again?

Because i miscarryed some of my options include fertility treatment so i have a less likely chance that i will miscarry again and also i could try to get pregnant again and maybe the baby will be fine and i won't miscarry.  Also i could always adopt and not risk having another miscarriage. These options also could be used by a person who thought they were pregnant....but are not.

Baby Project, Day 2

1) At five weeks is the mark of embryonic period. This is when the baby's brain, spinal cord, heart, and other organs begin to form. The embryo is now made up of three layers: the top layer-the ectoderm which gives rise to the baby's skin, nervous system, eyes, inner ear, and many connective tissues. The middle layer is called the mesoderm which is where the baby's heart and circulartory system will form and this layer also gives foundation to the baby's bones, muscles, kidneys, and much of the reproductive system. The inner layer of cells- the endoderm will become a simple tube lined with mucous memebranes. The baby's lungs, intestines, and bladder will develop here. By this week. the baby should be about 1/16 to 1/8 inch long. At week six, your baby's heart is pumping blood. Basic facial features will begin to appear, including passageways that will make up the inner ear and arches that will contribute to the jaw. The baby should be about 1/6 to 1/4 inch long. At week seven, the baby's brain and face are rapidly developing. Tiny nostrils become visible and the eye lenses begin to form. The baby should be about 1/4 to 1/3 inch long. At week eight, the baby's arms and legs are growing longer, and fingers have begun to form. The baby's ears are forming and its eyes and nipples are visible. The upper lip and nose have formed and the trunk of the baby's body is beginning to straighten. Also the baby might begin to move but the mother will not be able to feel it. The baby should be about 1/2 inch long.

2)The mothers body is changing in many ways, blemishes or spots start to appear on the face, waist and hips get bulkier, thighs put on more flesh, abdomen becomes bulky, loose, and spots may start to appear along with stretch marks, and the size of breats enlarge and milk starts being produced. In certain cases the naval may protrude.

3)There are many contributing factors for a mother to possible have twins or triplets which is fertility treatment which some mothers do. Another is age, an older women is more likely to have twins or triplets than a women in her twenties. Also heredity is a factor because twins or triplets are said to run in families. The last factor is size, researches say maternal height and weight can play a role in whether you have twins/triplets or not.

4)In choosing a doctor or midwife you must first decide on what you want from them. Are you a person who wants to be lead by the hand through the pregnancy? Do you see your role as a partner with the care provider? Do you only want basic information or all of the information available? Should you be told what to do or be given the ability to make your own decisions? Do you want to be a patient or a client? After you decide on what you want, make a list of providers that you think qualify, then interview each one of them until you find one that meets your criteria. Do not just choose a care provider solely from referal from friends and family, choose one you think is the best for yourself.  It is possible to give birth at home and some women prefer it because it is a relaxing environment in which you are comfortable in. But with giving birth at home, there are risks like if something goes wrong you will not have the advanteges of the technology of a hospital.

5) Some tips for a healthy pregnancy include :

1. Eat five or six well-balanced meals each day.
2. Take a prenatal vitamin each day as directed by your obstetrician.
3. Drink plenty of fluids, at least eight to ten glasses a day, avoiding caffeine and artificial coloring.
4. Don't drink alcohol.
5. Don't smoke or allow yourself to be exposed to second-hand smoke.
6. Exercise--it's important for your general health, and also to reduce stress. Take a pregnancy exercise class or walk at least 15 to 20 minutes every day at a moderate pace. Walk in cool, shaded areas or indoors in order to prevent overheating.
7. Get adequate sleep--at least eight hours a night. If you're suffering from sleep disturbances, take naps during the day and see your physician for advice.
8. Wear comfortable, non-restricting shoes and put your feet up several times a day to prevent fatigue and swelling of the feet, legs, and ankles.
9. Continue to wear a safety belt while riding in motor vehicles. According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, the shoulder portion of the restraint should be positioned over the collar bone. The lap portion should be placed under the abdomen as low as possible on the hips and across the upper thighs, never above the abdomen. Also, pregnant women should sit as far from the air bag as possible.
10. Don't take over-the-counter medications or herbal remedies without first consulting your obstetrician.